Wow there is alot of stuff here
Move to ATL
Move to SF
Move to Philly
Move to VA
Move to DC
Bill and I do not do commemorate dates really, a card on B days card and lights on Xmass, simple card on anniversaries nothing huge. I'm not going to lie this is more because of him then I. I would love to throw huge parties but Bill is happy keeping it small, So I do as well. I am Thankful for Bill and I am glad I found him, he keeps me in check and I really believe I would be in a bad way if i had not found him. He is passive where I am aggressive, he is humanistic where I am a nilist, he shows compassion for people where I have none. His peacful nature has placed a leash on my violent one. I feel we complement eachother well.
Every relationship has termoil Our has. Every relationship has two people that are always changing and hopfully growing the trick is to LIKE the person you are with and like the person they are becoming. Grow together, If you can do that then you will have a long and sucsessful relationship.