Way to much stuff to type out and I'm not really in the mindset to sit and collect my thoughts on this touchy subject. Needless to say We have allot of balls in the air, kitchen remodel, john moving in for a small period of time (Dec 31) so he can save his down payment for his house.
John is moving in on the 1st of sep and will be living out of suitcases while the closing of his house happens. this is not a repeat of Fritz this is a simple house guest situation, we are never falling into that kind of trap again.
I look forward to johns stay with us, he is helpful and handy and feels extremely guilty if he doesn't pull his weight, so I know he will be up and out of here by the date he gives, I'm not worried about that, what does worry me is getting all the obstruction on finalizing our home. We want to settle, we want to make a home and for two years it has been stalling, now that everything is moving it seem like allot of obstacles are popping up.
Not stopping us but not making this transition from wandering couple to happy home owners who have guests and dinner parties and enjoy just being together in a nest but really making us work for this goal.
John is moving in on the 1st of sep and will be living out of suitcases while the closing of his house happens. this is not a repeat of Fritz this is a simple house guest situation, we are never falling into that kind of trap again.
I look forward to johns stay with us, he is helpful and handy and feels extremely guilty if he doesn't pull his weight, so I know he will be up and out of here by the date he gives, I'm not worried about that, what does worry me is getting all the obstruction on finalizing our home. We want to settle, we want to make a home and for two years it has been stalling, now that everything is moving it seem like allot of obstacles are popping up.
Not stopping us but not making this transition from wandering couple to happy home owners who have guests and dinner parties and enjoy just being together in a nest but really making us work for this goal.